The reason we put up with unhealthy relationships of any kind, is because our patterns allow us to continue to do so. If you existed in a pattern of criticism from a chief figure in your life, you become accustomed to criticism and may not even recognize it. Or if you do recognize it, you just expect the familiarity of it. As a wise person once told me, "shit is warm". It's gross but warm and familiar;  💩(finally, a legit use of this poop emoji).