Jewel Toned Jewess

Lol this title 😂‼️ Hey, Man, always be loud and proud🙌🏻. Of both your heritage, and the way you look. Sometimes, pride is simply found in getting up to take a shower that includes hair washing. When we feel very overwhelmed or down, even basic cleanliness can feel like too much to deal with. I get it. I've been there. You can't tell based on all these picture perfect images,  that is the result of a terrific glam squad and an ultra talented photographer. Yes, I can style an outfit. I enjoy that creative process.

Just understand that these photos represent a certain moment in time. I don't always look like this. I'm not always in a good, balanced mood. I've had to overcome and deal with many difficulties in life, as well as typical petty nonsense. I work on my headspace constantly. It's the best investment we can possibly make.  However, I am at a place where I feel more balanced than ever. I'm stronger, more aware of how complete I am, and have better coping mechanisms and tools to react in a manner in which I deserve.  What I mean by that is, when I react badly I feel badly. When I respond patiently and retain composure, I feel proud and good. How we react to things is one of the greatest gifts we can give to ourselves. The recipient of your response gets over it much quicker than you do. You'll carry that shit around for days. Don't punish yourself.             

Now let's talk style. My smile is so wide and bright here because I love this freaking outfit! It made me so happy to wear it. I began with the shimmery orange pleated skirt. I was on the hunt for a midi length pleated skirt, and found this gem at Maje. I love the combination of subtle shine and structure of the pleats. This length skirt is so cool and versatile. Cool sneakers, a pump, high heeled boots, or a loafer. I looooooved these shiny, magenta ones. You had me at "shiny and magenta". A basic loafer is too conservative for me, but it's indeed a very clean, practical shoe. The shoe gods smiled upon Lady B by making this pair this way. Thanks, Dudes🙌🏻.

The pink and orange don't compete with each other here. They are like two cool pals in on the same joke, exchanging a secret wink😉😉. They get each other. The skirt is the bigger item obviously, but it's not in your face. The look calms down as it goes up, leading up to the crisp blue/black t shirt. I rolled up the sleeves to sharpen it more. A crisp sleeve roll can make a look, whether it's on a button down, t shirt, blazer, or coat. Topping off this outfit is a vintage black leather cap that I usually wear to the front. It's amazing what a tiny adjustment can do. That's a metaphor, think about that one... By turning the cap back and to the side, it instantly became softer and more playful. Front wouldn't have looked right here. It's too strong. I only knew that once I futzed around with it. I felt quite French and tres chic💋!  Above all, this was really comfortable. A t shirt, looser skirt, and flats; ingredients for wearable comfort food. Yummy😋. I haven't worn colors this bright in awhile. It felt good! Ya can't be pissed when you're dressed like this. Every choice we make determines the flow of our day. Every single one. It's all part of mindfulness, knowing what works for us in all areas. Pleats and Thank You, The 🐝